Finally Aiza at School.

Yes! There are still 49 days to go that Aiza will turn to 5 years. She has lived her childhood, not being too spoiled nether too introverted. She was a girl to get up whatever time, she felt like in the day time, whatever she wanted I provided her, she listens to me and those golden days are fading away.  I admitted her in the school due to social pressure, everyone had the opportunity to be telling which school does she study in, why did not you let go to school, etc.  I have admitted her to a school near my house. I have visited many schools prior to her admission to the school, in which I found Dar-e-Arqam the best due to a system they have and location wise.

The day before she practically goes to school, I bought her uniform and some other important requirements for school. I made her sleep with me that I can get her up, prepare her and go to school.

Early in the morning she was excited which really motivated me that it will not be upsetting. Today she got up earlier than her usual time and got prepared. Me and my wife went with her to the school and let her begin following teachers/madams.

I dropped my wife back home and visited her school again and sat outside the school for an hour or so and then come back home with a heavy heart. It was too hard not to find Aiza in the house, trying to get settled but could not do it.

I rushed down to my house and started the car and went to her school and took her back home. On the way back she said, that it is too great to be in school, I am going to make some friends and I also finished my donut in school.

She is sleeping now and I am watching at her face, it gives me extra pleasure that she is growing up and stabilizing me emotionally.

Every father may be having some emotional attachments to his daughter, I know this is awkward to write something like that, but I can’t stop myself.

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Aiza at School

People in my circle never misses a single moment to ask me, when I will have to get my daughter admitted to the school. And as always my arguments are when she turns eight years. They have their own arguments and so do I, but in the end I do whatever I have decided.

While dealing with them, I keep one thing in my mind, that it is me, who has to look after her, it is me who has to grow her not you, so I let them go with their arguments. Who cares??

To me getting the kid admitted in a school at an early age, is not for learning, but for socializing him/her. It goes without saying that sometimes parents get tired of dealing with their kids and they sent them to school to grow them in the hands of some unqualified and merciless people in the school.

Few days back I happened to discover a FINE ART School nearby my house and I informally got my daughter admitted in. Since it is just a FINE-ART and drawing school so there go no strict rules regulations.

We went to school today and she has taken her first class, she was confused initially, but with the passage of time, she got too frank with her teacher. She has been observing the teacher and asked me so many questions at the end.

She has received a NOTEBOOK as a gift and was so much excited to show it to her mom.

End of the class, she has demanded a shower-ma and we did not find it in the whole market, that’s how she ended-up with chocolates.