Aiza is Cycling

Its been a week or so that my daughter has returned from Swat. She has seen a bicycle of her cousin Yahya Khan. She kept on repeating to own one. Finally we have decided to get her a bicycle. The first day she learned how to cycle and next day i took her down in the community Center Circle and here she goes. 

An Other Day and Other Song

"Will keep you there, where I am sure if I don’t become your, none will become your.The wind will blow me away with your memories and feelings if you become mine"

That day when she woke up early in the morning she approached me saying papa how can I unlock the Ipaid and I taught her how to do it. Since then She knows how to unlock the Ipaid. She is Just three years old and really connecting and sharing her little desires. As I have said in my previous blog that she loves dance and I will go with her this dream.

Dance with my Daughter

This life is too short. We always miss the day's joy for tomorrow planning. We don't have enough time for our kids, they grow up roughly. They don't get proper training, supervision, and life ends up with nothing in hand. 

Am I over conscious about my daughter? Even if I am, I don't care, I will take my life with my daughter this way. 

How much work-load do I have each day, How much bad attitude of my wife do I maintain, How much Financial and psychological trauma I go through but I can't miss giving time to my daughter? Last Night we danced for almost One good hour and we enjoyed like Hell. 

Happy Birthday Aiza Khan

Birthdays come only once in a year and last year I celebrated my daughter's birthday being away from her. My wife was gracious - enough to ask me for anything on that day and I asked her to arrange a grand party for my family members.

During these three years, I have tried my extreme level best to get my daughter whatsoever my wife and daughter wished for. We are now shifted to our new house “Islamabad” and I planned to celebrate my daughter’s birthday in a very unique way, but due to work load in office, I again got failed to celebrate it the way I wish.

Thanks to My brother "Sibghat khan who is my best friend when it comes to arranging the party. He helped me to choose which cake has to be bought and wrote with n name on it. He also helped me to make my daughter pose for pictures.

Why i love my Daughter

A pregnant woman asked her husband "we are finally going to have a baby in two moths? What do you want it to be? Boy or girl?

Husband replied i want a healthy baby, it doest not matter if it is a boy or girl. Touched by this the woman continued to ask :but do have a plans for baby ?

Of course i do he replied. His wife got excited and told him, what is your plan, if he is a boy. 

The Husband replied, i will teach him all mischievous things, how to respect people, sport and math the list goes on ...

What if it a girl, the woman asked?

She asked  i would not have to teach her any thing. Replied the husband lady :Why the woman asked ?

He: because i will be learning from her, I will learn how to be perfect idol, since her husband will always be compared with me by her. She will teach me unconditional love. She will also teach me dress , speak ,eat or play"

Pregnant wife asked .

You mean daughter will do all these things but son will not, asked the woman?

Husband: our son may also be able to do all those but daughters are born with it, She will fight for me and with me but never let me get hurt.

Wife. But probably she will not let us be with her forever. 

Husband but we will live in her heart  Forever. Unconditionally no matter where we are how we are.. our bond with the daughters  is never broken 

Daughters are forever. Daughters  may leave Your home but you never leave your heart or mind. 

We love You Aiza, You are the only hope, we are spending life with. 

Aiza went to Afghanistan

It was Just a normal day, i asked my wife, what if we plan to visit Afghanistan. She with out giving a second thought to my idea, got agreed and handed over her and Aiza's Passports along with Pictures. I took the stuff and went to Afghan Consulate based in Peshawar. The visa issued within Just an hour. Next day we rented out a car from Charssadda to Torkham and from Torkham to Kabul. It was nicest Journey we ever did so far. It was Just an adventure, me and my wife had a desire for . We were to go to Mazar Sharif, as some of my wife's relatives were living there. It has taken us 8 hours from Kabul to Mazar Sharif and we were too afraid that Aiza may not get bored, but half of the way she was sleeping and half of the way she has been walking and making noises inside the bus. Upon reaching to Mazar Sharif We slept all the day long and upon waking up, we felt like that it was a dream come true. We spent 12 days in Mazar Sharif, where we visited Places like Balkh, Fort, Rabia Balkhi's grave, Mazar Sharif and many other places. In Kabul we spent sometime and visited the famous places too. 

We were a bit conscious that Aiza may not fallen a sick, but thanks God, she did not come across of any uncertain situation. She enjoyed the stay there, and we bought many traditional cloths for her. 

Aim of the Traveling was to get Aiza a chance to see her relatives across the boarder. We do all these things for Aiza, coz we love her the most. 

We did it for Aiza Khan

Ten days back, when my wife told me the whole story. I went completely out of my mind. It was no lesser than any tsunami kind of News. I have called one of my close friends and he helped me up to an extant. After that We have managed to accomplish that mission of ours. Thanks to my Brother Saeed Khan and Sweet Bhabi for helping me out that traumatic situation.

I have no words to thanks to my wife, for going through such a tough time, in order to give a sustainable gap to my daughter. 

Love You Saima Sami

Aiza at Beach

Since i have one daughter and for the time being, no plan to apply for an other kid. She is Aiza Khan and just 2 years old. She was scared of Water especially on the beach. One day i took her to the Beach to get her used to the Beach water. She was initially allergic to Water but later on, she was very much used to go deep in it. She has been asking me to take her, to beach each morning, which i with open of my heart took the responsibility of. She has never missed a single day to swim on the beach afterword. The only thing her mom was upset of, was that she used to give her a deep bath after taking swim on the beach. I love Aiza because she is making me experience my childhood again. Love and Long live Aiza.

Happy Second Year birthday Aiza.

Its Aiza’s Second birthday and she is out of my reach. After passing three good months here in Dubai with me, she left for Pakistan. They left Dubai by 5^th January  2017. They spent 15 Days in Lahore with her Aunt, which they really enjoyed. After that Aiza’s mom has spent five days back in Aiza’s Grandma house. Then they left for own house. She is completing her second year today, and not feeling good. I wish I were with her at this very time. I wish I wished.