We shaved her Head

There, have been electoral democratic arguments between my wife, to either shave or shave not Aiza’s head. I was in the favor, to shave her head, for obvious reasons, i.e. fresh hairs, to avoid the dandruff, lice and falling of hairs, while my wife was in favor of not shaving it, due to the cold weather and not giving a girlish good look. We have built arguments for about two days, and finally we put the third party (Aiza’s Grand-Mom) to decide whose idea is more powerful. She being an Experience lady; convinced my wife that shaving head at this age gives fresh out comes. So keeping the democratic process, my wife submitted herself to our idea and decision was finally taken. Now the second part was, where and who will shave her head? If we could take her to the barbershop, of course she might be have caused to disturb others by crying, and if we could have called the barber to home, of course that would have been a long process again. So we finally decided that when goes asleep, her Grand-Mom will shave her head. We were no doubt afraid that Grand Mom of Aiza might not hurt her. We hold our heart and handed over Aiza to her Grand-Mom and went out for the time being and with-in Just 8 minutes, she shaved her head, with out a single Cut. Wow. We impressed. We went on Shopping to buy new warm cloths for Aiza and some hot caps to keep her warm, but again the hot cap, catches her head the way, no one can imagine. But with shaved head, Aiza is really looking cuter than before. 

Good Luck Aiza khan

My Daughter to Me :)

A girl’s father is one of the most influential people in her life, from infant to toddler to tween to teen. Learn why Dad has such a big impact on his little girl’s development into a strong, confident woman.

A father's influence in his daughter's life shapes her self-esteem, self-image, confidence and opinions of men. How Dad approaches life will serve as an example for his daughter to build off of in her own life, even if she chooses a different view of the world.

Dads and daughters: From infant to toddler

We now live in a culture where Dad is an equal partner in care giving. From day one, dads are encouraged to be hands-on, changing diapers, giving baths, putting Baby to sleep and calming her cries. That presence and effort is the beginning of a very important relationship.

According to Austin, this quality time together is crucial at all stages of a girl's life. "Dads need to spend time with their infant daughter, taking care of her physical needs and supporting her Mom," he explains. And once the little lady starts toddling around, " it's essential that Dad gets down on the floor — on her level — and plays with her," Austin says.

Fathers and daughters: From tween to teen

It's those pesky "hormonal" years that can often have dads shying away from their moody and sometimes standoffish daughter. When there's a tween girl in the house, "dads should focus on cultivating a trusting relationship so that their daughters feel secure talking with them about what's going on in their lives," Austin explains. "When necessary, dads should apologize and ask for forgiveness, as this both shows respect and love to our daughters and heals the hurts that are inevitable in daily life together."

As a girl continues to grow and her teen years become fraught with complicated issues, dads should continue to work on building a trusting relationship, give affection and support her as she learns more about who she is and what kind of person she wants to become, Austin says. "It's imperative that, no matter what, dads avoid the temptation to pull away or withdraw during this sometimes challenging stage of growing up."

A father's influence on a daughter's self-image

A dad's involvement in his daughter's life is a crucial ingredient in the development of a young woman's self-esteem. Austin identifies positive elements of "common sense" parenting for dads so they can help support their daughter's self-image and curb any possibility of low self-esteem: Verbal encouragement, being consistently present in her life, being alert and sensitive to her feelings, taking time to listen to her thoughts and taking an active interest in her hobbies. "It's important to actually do these things, which can sometimes be quite challenging," Austin adds. Direct involvement and encouragement by her father will help diminish a girl's insecurity and increase her confidence in her own abilities.

How dads influence their daughter's relationships

The type of men that women date and have long-term relationships with is also directly related to the kind of relationship a girl has with her father. Obviously, the hope is that the father figure in a girl's life will aim to skew that young lady's opinions of men in a positive way. "He must, first and foremost, treat his daughter with respect and love. Whether or not he is married to or still together with his daughter's mom, showing respect to her mother is essential as well," explains Austin. "He must also value women as human beings, and not as persons to be used. Daughters will see what their dads believe about women by how they value and respect women, or by how they fail to do so."

When I Saw My Daughter

I see my daughter today in a babies smile 
I see her there for just a little while 
I see my Daughter today in a playful boy 
Trying to choose between many a toy 
I see my Daughter today in a small child 
Splashing in the mud puddles so wild 
I see my Daughter today in his hunting clothes 
Out in a tree stand watching the does 
I see my Daughter today down by the lake 
Casting his pole in hopes of a fish to bake 
I see my Daughter today walking in the rain 
It reminded me of all my built-up pain 
I see my Daughter today in the moons light 
She is standing there with eyes so bright 
I see my Daughter today in a little butterfly 
She just want to stop in and say hi 
I see my Daughter today in a memory of mine 
I see my Daughter today looking so fine 
I see my Daughter today in a bird you see 
I see my Daughter today finally free 
I see my Daughter today to my surprise 
She is in the mirror smiling with my eyes💙

Good Luck Aiza khan

Aiza is Teething :(

There are two states of kids, either sleeping or not sleeping. When they sleep they look awesome cute, but when they wake up, they look extravaganza. However; Kids seem cute and beautiful when they smile, but the prominent features are, the closed eyes and teeth at front, while smiling. In the teething period the kids take everything to his/her mouth, due the itching at their jaws. Its one of the irrational processes the kid go through.

She is turning to 8 Months and two days today, and has come up with the first Tooth, wow. We are so much excited to see her growing up, collecting her physical shape. She has got a bit of fever and stomach out of order, which is way normal. We, being parent at one hand very excited that she is teething, while another hand a bit upset to see her in fever.

Good Luck Aiza Khan

Billion Word and One Aiza Khan

Generally parents love their children regardless of gender. There are, however, differences in how the love is expressed. Human relationships within a family are always influenced by gender, position in family (first born, middle. youngest child) and temperament (Family members with similar temperament traits understand each other better). Gender works both ways. The child-parent relationship is special between a parent and a child of opposite sexes.  The father sees himself in his son, the mother in her daughter. This often leads to a lot of expectations and a stricter attitude towards the child on behalf of the parent of the same sex. The child also measures himself against the parent of the same sex. This amounts to disagreements accumulating between them during the teenage years as the young person seeks his/her identity and gradually established his/her independence. This can be especially fierce between father and son and even lead to profound disagreements, which only begin to milden, when the son reaches adulthood. The young male has to overpower the head of the herd.

Between parent and child of opposite sexes life is smoother and based on mutual admiration. The relationship gets more difficult with the appearance of girl/ boyfriends to shake the boat. A father tends to be strict towards anyone stealing his beautiful daughter from him and the mother thinks no one is good enough for her dear son. That’s my feelings for my Daughter. I always wished to have a daughter my first child and my wife was against my wish. But thanks God, I am blessed with a beautiful daughter, and I am a girly Girl’s father, with the hope that we are starting our life from the beginning again

Aiza Falls Off Bed

Most parents choose to put their child in the bassinet or crib during the first few years of life, but some parents want to enjoy the “family bed.” While bed-sharing might have benefits, especially for the breast-feeding mother, it can lead to dangers as well. One of those dangers is your baby falling off bed. That day I was reading feedbacks on my social media, sitting near by my Daughter on sofa, while her Mom was out for a small work. I was too deep in the Social Media that I could not manage focusing on Aiza, she was slowly tossing to the adage of the Bed, and suddenly a big sound and she was down on the Floor. OMG, She was lying down on the floor, being upside down, with no cry or screaming. That very moment I realized that small kids don’t call others for help; neither let the other realize that they are passing through a hard time or pain. She got her nose scratched, she was afraid and that was her first time in her life, that she has found, what is Fear? Her mum rushed back to room, hold her up closed to her chest and started crying. The moment Aiza found her mum is crying she started crying too. That was like why OMSG. That is the most helpless moment when you are also in trauma and still trying to pat someone, its ok, Nothing worsen happened. God bless all those small kids and keep them safe and secured in their early and later ages.